Fans think it’s a metaphor for grief. “Nope. It’s literally about a guy in Tulsa. The ‘twenty miles’ was the distance to his motel. Sorry, mom.” Part 3: The Personal Unraveling (#11–#15) 11. Dee has been legally married for six years. The world thought she was a fiercely independent singleton. “I have a husband. A gardener named Paul. We live separately. He hates music. It’s the only thing that works.”

Her signature intimidating stage squint is actually a result of childhood Bell’s palsy. “It’s not attitude. It’s nerve damage. I just never corrected anyone because it looked ‘cool.’”

In 2018, exhausted and underpaid, Dee lied to her manager about a “nervous collapse.” “I spent those three months in a cabin learning to bake sourdough. No therapy. Just bread. I feel guilty about it every day.”